her." You don’t want to be a sweater he found while cleaning out his closet that he decides to try on for fun. He makes a plan for two weeks from now: He is either going to cancel on you, or you’re going to cancel on him.
Neither of you really care that much about each other or you’d try harder to hang out.
He asks you to get drinks as soon as you match: If he asks you to meet up on the first conversation you have, he’s just trying to fuck. So unless you’re one day post-breakup territory, him pushing to get drinks right away is usually a red flag. Ask him if he wants to get drinks—if he made the move to get your number he’ll appreciate you taking the lead on setting a plan.
At the start of every relationship it’s not always easy to tell the difference between a guy who's serious about you and a guy seriously trying to get in your pants.You’ve been talking on and off for almost a month, and neither of you have made plans to meet up: I mean, he sees that you’re witty and hot and still hasn’t asked you out?Then he’s probably in a relationship and def just using Tinder to power play his way out of feeling trapped.If he hasn’t asked you out yet but you’re also not that into it, you’re probably both keeping each other as backburners for when you’re both bored.You should unmatch him because your time is precious and why waste perfect conversation on a mediocre match? He asked you for your number after talking to you for a few days: He probably does want to meet up with you but is intimidated. If he’s already asked for your number, he is interested.